Her 75

What Happens If You Cheat on 75 Hard? (Or 75 Soft, or 75 Medium)

By The Her 75 Team· Last updated

The Andy Frisella original rule

Miss any single rule on any single day and you restart at Day 1. This applies if you're on Day 2 or Day 74. There are no exceptions in the original 75 Hard rules.

What counts as cheating on original 75 Hard

  • Skipping or shortening either workout
  • Drinking less than 1 gallon of water
  • Eating any food outside your chosen diet (one bite counts)
  • Drinking any alcohol
  • Reading fewer than 10 pages of nonfiction
  • Missing the daily progress photo
  • Doing both workouts indoors (one must be outdoors)

Each violation = full restart.

The mental case for the restart rule

Andy Frisella designed the restart rule on purpose. The logic: rigidity is what builds mental toughness; flexibility lets you off the hook. If you know you'll restart, you don't miss the workout.

The trade-off: completion rates are low. Most women never finish original 75 Hard precisely because of the restart rule.

How Her 75's modes handle missed days differently

| Mode | Missed day consequence | |---|---| | Strict 75 Hard (Reset 75 app strict mode) | Full restart | | 75 Hard (women-adapted) | Modification rules apply; no restart for cycle-aware adjustments | | 75 Medium | No restart. Pause and resume. | | 75 Soft | No restart. Pause and resume. | | Glow Within | No restart. Lowest intensity, most flexible. | | Better Me | No restart. Growth-focused. |

The Her 75 philosophy

Completion beats perfection. Across women who attempt rigid 75 Hard with the restart rule, most never finish. Across women who use Her 75's no-restart modes, most do — and the habits they build last well past Day 75.

If your goal is mental-toughness extremism, original 75 Hard's restart rule is the feature. If your goal is sustainable women's wellness, no-restart is the better design.

What to do if you "cheat"

On original / strict 75 Hard:

  • Restart at Day 1. This is the program.

On Her 75's lower modes:

  • Take the day. Breathe. No restart.
  • Resume tomorrow.
  • Make a 2-sentence note: what triggered the miss? Pattern over time shows whether you need to step down a mode.

The "step down a mode" feature

Inside the Reset 75 app, if you miss 3+ days in a week, the app prompts: "Switch to a gentler mode and keep your day count?" Most women who use this feature actually finish their 75 days, vs. quitting entirely.

Bottom line

Original 75 Hard's restart rule is intentional cruelty. It works for some, breaks most. Her 75's lower modes optimize for completion via no-restart and modification permission.

Try Her 75 free in the Reset 75 app →

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Frequently Asked Questions

What counts as cheating on 75 Hard?+

Per Andy Frisella's rules: missing either workout, drinking less than the gallon, eating any food off your chosen diet, drinking any alcohol, reading fewer than 10 pages, or missing the daily photo. Each is a full-restart violation. Even one rule missed = back to Day 1.

Do I really have to restart 75 Hard if I miss a day?+

Per Frisella's official rules, yes — and many 75 Hard purists insist on it. On Her 75's strict 75 Hard mode the app enforces this. On Her 75's other modes (75 Soft, 75 Medium, Glow Within, Better Me) you don't restart — you pause and resume, because completion matters more than perfection.

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